What is cheating?

My view on this is she is not cheating, she is obviously needing attention from her husband she doesn't feel she is getting and she is getting that attention from this other guy. Some people when they flirt with others they then go home and are charged up to see their hubby or wife it's kind of a self esteem lifter. If she is not becoming distant with her hubby then I see nothing wrong with it. However if her hubby is not happy or if it is for the reason of non attention at home then she should talk to her hubby before she feels more cared for by someone else other then him. To me tho this really seems like a harmless self esteem lifter. I say let her hubby and her figure it out and deal with it no one should get into marrital afairs because we all have diff views on what is acceptable and what is not.